18 Oct '07

Rumour: Britney: “I Can’t Believe What’s Happening”

 POSTED BY Danny

A week ago, Kevin Federline grudgingly consented to allow Britney Spears overnight visits with sons Sean Preston and Jayden James.

It didn’t take long for him to change his mind.

During a closed-door emergency hearing Wednesday, Los Angeles Superior Court Commissioner Scott Gordon suspended Spears’ visitation rights until she complied with his full custody order, which includes parenting sessions and random drug tests.

The decision has devastated the singer.

“She’s really upset,” a source close to Spears tells E! Online. “She keeps saying, ‘I can’t believe this is happening.’ It’s like she just can’t accept what’s happened.”

A second source familiar with the ongoing custody tug-of-war tells E! Online Federline was so angry when the children came back to him after their last visit with Spears two days ago he vowed to do whatever it takes to keep his ex-wife from seeing their babies again until she cleans up her act.

“She just doesn’t take parenting seriously,” the Federline insider says. “And Kevin knows it. He keeps saying he’s genuinely scared for their safety.” And not even a court-ordered monitor has changed that.

“He knows that even with monitored visits, no one can make Britney do what she doesn’t want to do,” the source adds. “She’s used to telling people what to do, pushing people out of her way. She’s a hard woman to control.”

Federline was convinced Spears wasn’t living up to her maternal responsibilities after the kids came back to his house crying and surly.

“They came back to his house, and their eating schedule was off, their sleeping schedule was off, and they won’t listen to him, because he knows they haven’t been getting any discipline at her house,” the Federline associate claims.

“He has to start all over, getting them settled again, calm them down and reintroduce them to their normal schedules. And it’s frustrating for him. He’s been tolerating this for a long time, but he thought maybe it would get better with a monitor involved. It hasn’t.”

During the last dropoff with the kids two days ago, eyewitnesses say Spears appeared to be in a very foul mood, even snapping at her brand-new assistant.

“She was walking very fast and then bitching because her new assistant wasn’t walking fast enough to keep up,” recounts the insider from the Federline camp. “She kept saying things like, ‘Oh, come on! Will you hurry up?’ And it just made the whole situation so tense for everyone.”

Federline heard about how ill-tempered Spears seemed after the fact, because he doesn’t go to the dropoffs himself, instead preferring to let security bring him the children.

“He just knows he can’t see her, because she is so unapproachable, and he’s afraid she’ll get all bananas in front of the kids, like she used to when they were married,” the K-Fed source says.

Federline is also concerned about the level of paparazzi attention to Spears’ every move.

“When they were married, they had a dozen or so photographers following them around,” the Federline insider continues. “But now, she’s got this unmanageable horde around her all the time. Sometimes 50 or more people are all around her, and what kind of affect does that have on the kids? But Brit doesn’t care anymore, she just acts like it’s all so normal.”

Federline turned to his lawyer, Mark Vincent Kaplan, for help once again, asking him to look into how the monitored visits are going and whether Spears had been going to the parenting coach. She apparently had not. She also may have missed a drug test.

“So, Kevin wanted back in court right away to see about cutting off her visits,” the Federline source explains.

The parenting coach is due to submit a report at the next hearing on Oct. 26, when Gordon may modify the custody arrangement yet again. Spears and Federline are both expected to attend.

Adds the K-Fed source: “Kevin believes it’s the only way she’ll start paying attention to her responsibilities, by making her feel the consequences of shirking them.”

Source: E! Online

This doesn’t really make sense, as we had previous reports saying she was doing well with the appointed monitors…

this is bullshit, as u said, it doesnt make sense. and its just so ridiculous how over the top the federline inside sources r going, she seems them for one day a week, and their how shedule changes? yeh rite, this is stupid.

kully on Thursday, October 18, 2007 @ 10:35 pm

this pisses me off why doesn’t the judge BOSS kevin around like he does britney!!! when i heard the judge was going to me a MAN i knew he was going bully britney around like that one judge did to paris AND I DON’T EVEN LIKE PARIS and i could tell that judge was on some type of POWER TRIP! why is the media trying to paint this picture of britney being some type of mean diva like she’s the bad guy OF COURSE KEVIN’s a better parent he’s HAD TONs OF PRACTICE!! he has like 4 kids!!! the judge is an ASSHOLE she got her driver’s license she’s passing her drug test i BET he took them away cause she wasn’t seeing a parenting coach which isn’t fair

barbie on Thursday, October 18, 2007 @ 11:06 pm

The media has created an image of Britney as the out control, crazy, drug abusing bad mother. They will continue to spin things just to make her seem that way, probably because “bad Britney” sells papers and gets ratings. Ar this point she can adopt 10 kids from Africa and they will still find a way to make her look bad.

Laura on Thursday, October 18, 2007 @ 11:26 pm

ah more more and more bad press right before her album comes out. God this leaves a bad taste in my mouth.

chad on Thursday, October 18, 2007 @ 11:31 pm

This is a full of shit article. Federline, his so called sources, the media, and that judge is full of shit. Britney is a great person and a good parent and everyone is out to screw her over. Previous reports say she was doing great with everything and all of a sudden she’s doing bad. That don’t sound right. Something’s up. Kevin doesn’t give a damn about those kids he just wants money. And of course those kids are upset and surly. They are being taken from their loving mother and giving to this jackass. And what’s with talking about him having to take care of them and fixing things. Like he actually takes care of them or does anything for them. He probably just gets a nanny to take care of them and spend time with them so he can go and have fun. Like he gives a shit about being an actual parent. And they say Britney doesn’t take it serious. How many times do we see her with the kids. And how many times do we see Kevin with them. None! Also what’s with blaming the paps on Britney. She isn’t responsible for that shit. That isn’t her fault. Blame the media and celebrity obsessed public for that. Of course the media won’t own up to their own bullshit. What is Britney suppose to do keep em locked in doors all the time. What kind of childhood is that for them. How is that good for them. What she can’t take them out to places anymore because of the piece of shit paps. Besides if she did that they would just get after her for it. It’s like she can’t win or please these morons. And talking about that’s not a normal life. For her it is her normal life. And it’s unfortunate and not her fault. But because of the media and pathetic celebrity obsessed public she has to live with it. Which is fucked up and unfair. She didn’t ask for that. She just wanted to sing and make good music for people. People call it the price of fame. I call it the price of living in this shithole of a society. All of this is pissing me off. Britney is looked at as a bitch, as irresponsible, and a bad parent while that jackass Kevin is looked at as a hero even though he goes around partying and never spends time with the kids. And people are so stupid and brainwashed they believe every bit of it. Even people who are suppose to be fans of her are buying into this crap. This shows you how fucked up things are in this society. That a great person goes through all this shit and instead of helping her these pieces of scum just make it worse. No one gives a damn about anybody but themselves anymore. But despite all this I still believe everything will be alright. That this will end great. She will get those kids back, she will get things back on track, she will become a superstar again. And these bastards will pay for what they have done. Britney will only grow stronger from all of this. Everything will end great. Just stay loyal and continue to wait. It will pay off greatly in the end.

Clifton on Thursday, October 18, 2007 @ 11:53 pm

Yeh, this Kfed is a loser, trying to be funny again and he is definitely jealous of her success, probably want to make her a loser as well! Since Nov 2006 till Feb 2007, Britney has no problem taking care of her kids and even bringing them out, going to studio etc…! How come he didn’t bother about the kids then? Now he only wants the extra maintenance support $$$ cos’ his spousal support ends in Nov.

Lnear on Friday, October 19, 2007 @ 4:26 am

alright this is getting out of control….now how can you make a decision to take the right away from a parent because the kids are crying….THEY ARE KIDS…KIDS CRY!!!! WTF? i really think this judge is taking this way to far…he needs to stop messing with britney sounds like to me he is tring to get his 15 minutes of fame in while he can!!!..saying one day ok kfed has full custody then changes his mind saying she can see them twice a week while being watched to being ok for an over night stay to NOTHING again…and you know what its not like she is going out to the club everynight like she use to…and there should be some type of law saying that the paparazzi should be so manny feet away from Celebs and their properties!! i feel bad for her cause it just seems like more and more paparazziare showing up every day…

Kevin on Friday, October 19, 2007 @ 5:40 am

If the kids are having problem with the father, it only shows they are attached to the mum and only feel more comfortable with her. It’s cruel to even disallow any visitation rights, what kind of law is that? If the court appointed monitored coach isn’t experience enough to deal with Britney, then her role is questionable. If a judge can made rash, erratic decisions without consideration for the welfare of the victim, it only shows he doesn’t have a character and is definitely overstepping the authority. The law is intruding into the personal life of the celebrities - just like they did to Paris. Something fishy there, right?

Kira on Friday, October 19, 2007 @ 8:27 am

I don’t think, he is aware that when the children are crying they are actually trying to communicate their dissatifaction of the curren situation missing what left behind. Night time is when the children miss their more. The guy is trying to distroy Britney using the strongest wapon that is the children. Sad but true this guy is evil. If he loves his boys should be more loving to their muther too.

grace on Friday, October 19, 2007 @ 8:56 am

Every source in this story is from K-Fed’s people, and that makes me think they’re just trying to do more damage. Personally, i don’t believe it, Britney loves her boys so much and Kevin is an irresponsible dad, he only cares about the price tag attached to those boys. I hope this will all work out in boys’ favour soon. I love you Britney xoxox

Sean on Friday, October 19, 2007 @ 9:42 am

kfed stinks!!!!!

prem on Sunday, October 21, 2007 @ 3:45 pm

fack…….ill devour kfed wholly….wat an asshole

Brit"TheBITCH" on Sunday, October 21, 2007 @ 4:21 pm

i think they should all just leave the poor girl alone GIVE HER A BREAK kfed is such an asshole to her brit u can get som much better hun !!!!!!:)

ashley on Monday, February 18, 2008 @ 5:17 am
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